Your children deserve Two Parents… Try not divorce because of the affair
Let me introduce myself. I’m Savannah Ellis. I was born and raised in Sydney Australia, and was a child from a family torn apart by my Fathers affair. It breaks my heart to talk about this with you right now, even though my fathers affair happened when I was 16 years old. I loved my Father dearly.
To cut along story short, the affair devastated my family. I went into survival mode, and “just got on with life.” My Mother has never recovered from the betrayal, and has not been able to move on, even 26 years later.
My father, married the “Other Women” and she was the most evil person you could ever imagine. The stress she brought to my fathers life, killed him. My Father died at the age of 56 years old. The extended network of family and friends were shocked. They could never imagine my father being anything other than a “family man.” At his funeral, the church was so full of people who had come to pay their respect, that they stood around the side walls of the church, and out the church doors, continuing down the church stairs.
Stress killed him. The guilt of what he had done to his life and the family. A true tragedy.
I started studying Psychology at Monash University a few years prior. Originally, I wanted to work with Schizophrenic patients. My brother, had been diagnosed with Schizophrenia a few years after the destruction of the family. Schizophrenia can be brought on in several ways, and a traumatic life event is one of these ways. However, I quickly learned that a life time of working with Schizophrenics may just send me to the crazy farm too!
I was also preoccupied with having my own family. I was married young. On reflection, this is another fallout of the affair, my loss of my fathers guidance, day to day in my life at an age where I could easily make poor decisions. My husband and I had 3 wonderful children: Sara, Jacob, and Hannah.
I continued my post education while raising my young family, with degrees including: Masters in Clinical Psychology, Masters In Business Administration, and a Doctorate in Business Administration. I worked for large corporations, before starting a variety of businesses from Medical Clinics to Day Spas, and a medium sized Business Coaching & Accounting Firm.
In my clinic, what was clear from all this education, and practical application of theory, was that typical therapy does not help couples over come their relationship challenges. The training I had received could not help the couples I was treating. There had to be a better way, and as an entrepreneur and business women, I was determined to find a systematic way to solve this problem.
By this time, I had moved to the USA. I started my first Infidelity Recovery Clinic in Las Vegas in 2011, and my second in Santa Monica in 2012. At the same time, I began teach my method to other coaches, therapists, and psychologists, through my newly founded company, The Infidelity Recovery Institute. Our motto at the Infidelity Recovery Institute is:
Saving the Fabric of Society, One Relationship at a Time
What I am about to teach you, is the system I set up to help couples overcome the exact problem you are facing right now.
It has been tested.
But more seriously, I want to help save your family.
You don’t have to have the same unnecessary ending.
Where to Start?
Each Step of the program needs to be completed. It is a tough program. Initially it is tough on the infidel, however as we move along, you will discover that both people will need re-education and training for their own self-improvement.
This program does work best when you have the support and encouragement from a Certified Infidelity Recovery Specialist. However, for reasons you feel comfortable with, you have chosen to take this course online. This is why your first Step is Commitment.
I will be guiding you through the program, every step of the way, with videos, audio recordings from clinical sessions with clients, JUST LIKE YOU (all couples have consented to the recordings, just so long as you never find out who they are), and exercises and activities that MUST be completed.
EXCLUSIVE TO THIS PROGRAM: Included in This Program
I understand that you may get stuck, or may not understand why I am asking you to complete a specific task. Or maybe you just need to chat to me.
I am here and available for you both. I am not here to judge you. The damage is done, and now we just need to move through this tough period as quickly as possible. This is the only way you can both come out of this black tunnel without significant baggage.
You will be given my personal contact details: Phone, email and Skype, for VIP Coaching.
After each Step, you are both to contact me. Once we all agree the step is complete, you will move onto the next step.
There is no extra charge for this personalized care. I am here for you! I know what you are going through.
For more information on the 7 Step Infidelity Recovery Program CLICK HERE
Posted on June 27, 2014, in Divorce Support and tagged Affair Recovery, couples course, divorce prevention, divorce recovery, Infidelity Recovery, Marriage Counseling, online help, types of affairs. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.